What I notice is that a lot of people want to hide in non-duality (I may be one of them 😂 ). They want to hide in “well there’s no one here”, or they want to hide in spiritual ideas of love, bliss and happiness, just the good stuff.
They want to deny the bloodshed, the trauma, the anger, the pain, the fear and stay in the pink fluffy cloud of spirituality and oneness.
One of my favourite quotes:
The world is illusory; Brahman alone is real; Brahman is the world. – Ramana Maharshi
Love is Everything.